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Penis Stimulation: How to Give Your Man the Ultimate Blowjob

Learn the various regions of the penis to stimulate, along with other blowjob tips!

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Mia Hart

June 9, 2020

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By Mia Hart    June 9, 2020

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While a lot (but not all!) of the focus on Blissful Cherry is stimulation and pleasure for the women, we thought it would be good to provide a comprehensive guide for penile stimulation.

In other words, the best ways to stimulate the penis!

Ensuring that both male and female partners are satisfed sexually is very important in any good relationship.

Therefore, we are here to help make sure your man is also completely satisfied.

Note that this guide is focusing on different focal points to apply during oral or manual penile stimulation.

There are a lot of regions, each with different characteristics, so let's just get right into it!

Prefer to learn how to maximize your own sexual pleasure? Check out our introductory guide to sex toys.

The Shaft

This makes up most of the size of the penis.

Although it lacks a lot of nerve endings, its sheer size means that any stimulation can really get a man going.

Simply stroking the shaft by grasping it at the base and pulling the shaft up and down is a great way to stimulate.

This is the most common way girls please the man - especially beginners!

But it's a tried and true method that shouldn't be neglected!

Using different speeds while stroking is also a great tip!

One final, great way to turn a man on, not only physically but visually as well, is to start low at the base, right at his testicles.

Look straight into his eyes, while slowly licking his shaft from base to head.

That will make your man go crazy!

The Head

The penis head, also known as the glans, is comparable to the clitoris.

It has the most nerve endings on the penis.

Of interesting note is the fact that the highest concentration of nerves is around the outer ridge of the head.

The most intense sensations can be derived from kissing, licking, and sucking all over the penis head.

Just be sure to be gentle!

Although the head often provides the best pleasure for a man, being too rough can actually be quite painful.

Along the same lines, be sure to keep your teeth away from the penis head as much as possible!

Lastly, note that if your man is uncircumcised, pleasuring their head directly will do more than pleasuring it through the foreskin.

This is simply because all of the nerve endings are on the penis head underneath!

But if your man wants less stimulation, then stimulating the foreskin over the head may be ideal.

The Frenulum

This region is the V-shaped part under the head of the penis, where the head meets the shaft.

And it is a great spot for stimulation

While not as sensitive as the head itself, the frenulum is the most sensitive region on the shaft.

The ideal way to stimulate this region is to use your tongue and swirl it around the region.

Or simply lick the frenulum up and down, with varying pressures for varying sensations!

The Scrotum and Testicles

If you know anything about a man's testicles, you know that they are very sensitive!

However, guys still really enjoy when women (or men) play with their balls.

This includes the scrotum, which is the sack that holds the testicles.

But their nerve endings are slightly different than that of the rest of the penis.

To pleasure a man using his balls, simply cupping them with your hands can be a great sensation.

Kissing or licking them are also great tactics, as long as you are gentle with them!

Being too rouch on the testicles is probably the single way to completely turn a guy off mid-blowjob.

If not getting completely upset at you!

Don't be afraid to focus on his balls - just take it slow and tread lightly!

Other key regions

The above key points explain regions of the penis that give men the most pleasure.

But in reality, men can often also be pleasured by targeting these other nearby areas:

The Perineum

This is simply the area between the scrotum and the anus.

Simply using your fingers to stroke this area can be pleasing to guys (and girls).

Or you can apply firm pressure there as well.

Timing the pressure and stroking to other sexual acts can really elevate the sensation.

For example, stroke or press the perineum in time to every stroke of the shaft, or in time to every deep throat you give on the shaft.

This coordination really does wonders!

The Anus

The anus is such a great place for stimulation, not only for women, but for men as well.

If your man is open to anal play, then you have yet another option to lean on when pleasuring him.

In which case, check out our guide to anal stimulation for more details and ideas.

Putting it all together

Now that you know all of the potential pleasure points on your man, how do you put it all together to provide the ultimate blowjob (or handjob)?

Here are three tips to always keep in mind while pleasuring your man:


The key for providing the best oral (or manual) stimulation is to experiment!

The reason being is simply that all men are different!

They are not only turned on by different things, but turned off by certain things as well!

Try different regions and see what your man likes or doesn't like.

And use that knowledge for the next time you pleasure your man.

Stimulate multiple spots at once!

This is especially true when giving your man head (i.e. oral sex).

Try sucking on his head or licking his shaft, while at the same time gently cupping his balls.

Or sucking on his balls while stroking his shaft.

Any variation of two stimulations is a great way to amplify the pleasure for him.

Mix it up!

By this, we simply mean: don't stick to any single action.

After a few minutes, change what parts of your man you are stimulating.

This will keep him on his toes and give him even more pleasure overall.

Male Stimulation - Practice Makes Perfect!

As you can see, the penis is a complex organ, with multiple regions that provide immense pleasure in different ways!

And this is not even including the surrounding region that includes the perineum and the anus itself!

Soon, Blissful Cherry will be offering penis toys, just for that special man in your life!

But in the meantime, please check out our host of other sex toy offerings!

We have a wide range of products that are sure to satisfy you in new and exciting ways.

And while you are busy pleasuring yourself with any number of our luxury sex toys, don't neglect your man and instead use the knowledge in this guide to give him pleasurable times as well!