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How To Squirt: The Complete Guide To Female Ejaculation

Learn everything you need to know about the squirting orgasm and how to achieve it.

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Mia Hart

Updated August 15, 2023


Portrait of Mia from Blissful Cherry

By Mia Hart    Updated August 15, 2023

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Despite how sexual you may be as a woman, very likely have you never experienced the amazing experience of squirting.

In fact, only 21% of women have claimed to ever have squirted before.

And even less (5%) claim that they squirt with regularity.

It is like the Holy Grail for women to be able to say that they know how to squirt, and for men to say that they've been with a girl that can squirt.

What a lot of people wrongly assume, however, after years of never experiencing squirting, is that you (or your partner) are physically unable to squirt.

But that is a huge fallacy!

pie graph showing the percentage of women who have squirted before.
Less than a quarter of women (21%) claim to have squirted before. Less than a quarter of those women (5% overall) claim to squirt with any regularity.

In reality, there are key tips and tricks that can women can use to learn how to squirt.

Or that men can use to learn how to make a girl squirt.

Let's discuss the amaaazing squirting orgasm and how you (or your partner) can achieve this rare feat!


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What is squirting and why should I care?

Squirting orgasms are a variation of an orgasm which can best be described as when a girl literally shoots vaginal fluid from her vagina as she climaxes.

This liquid is typically clear and odorless, with a fairly close resemblance to urine.

And if you or our woman has ever had a squirting orgasm, you will know that squirting orgasms are the best orgasms any girl could ever experience.

There is truly no comparison.

But squirting is not only so special because the orgasm itself is amazing, but because it is such a rarity and a mystery in and of itself.

Sprinklers resemble what squirting looks like
Squirting looks just like this, but a lot more satisfying.

Thorough Foreplay Is A Must!

Although there are two distinct pleasure points that are absolutely key to squirting, no matter how much you focus on them, you will not be able to squirt unless you lead up to it with thorough foreplay.

You need to really get into the mood and be totally relaxed and "in the zone" so to speak.

We really cannot emphasize this enough - part of the reason girls are unable to squirt is because they fail to focus on achieving thorough foreplay beforehand.

It really does make a difference!

In short, squirting is not just something you can do by turning on a switch - it's a process that takes time.

But once you are properly and thoroughly aroused, finally getting over the hump becomes so much easier!

Where you stimulate matters!

As you might expect, squirting is not the easiest to achieve, especially for first timers.

And it is not always easy to do on a regular basis even after that.

But the pleasure rewards are so great that it is so worth it to learn just how it can be done, and done consistently.

For the most part, there are two main points on the body that require attention and intense stimulation:

#1 - Clitoris Stimulation

This is the most popular organ to stimulate, amongst both male and female organs, and for good reason.

It has the most nerve endings and so any stimulation feels amazing, and it is very sensitive to varying pressure points.

Want to learn more? Read up on our comprehensive clitoris guide.


Using your fingers is a great start.

And one that most women begin using once they realize the power of the clitoris.

But to really stimulate your clitoris fully, we definitely recommend utilizing a wand vibrator that is made specifically for the clitoris itself.

There is simply no way to target your clitoris any better, as any woman who has used a wand vibrator before can certainly attest to.

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However, despite all this, it is important to note that 90% of women will NOT squirt using clitoral stimulation alone!

The real key to squirting involves a much harder-to-reach "spot", in addition to the clitoris.

#2 - G-Spot Stimulation

While clitoral stimulation is the key to having orgasms in general, G-Spot stimulation is the real key for squirting orgasms.

Basically, it is a hidden spot on the interior vaginal wall, just a few inches deep.

It is highly sensitive (and may even be part of the clitoris)!

Want to learn more? Read up on our comprehensive G-Spot guide.


Targeting the G-spot has been proven to be more pleasurable than other vaginal stimulation.

And the majority of women surveyed (82%) claimed to experience female ejaculation when stimulating the G-spot.

In other words - they squirted after G-spot stimulation.

But just how can you or your partner access the G-spot?

It can be done manually with fingers or a penis.

But if you truly want easy access to this coveted female pleasure point, be sure to check out our vibrators.

They all help to you to access the G-spot easier, as well as hit it harder than you ever could.

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Stimulating both the clitoris and the G-spot is the definitive answer on how to make yourself squirt!

Or for guys, how to make her squirt!

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Use Sex Toys To Improve Your Chances of Squirting!

Figuring out how to squirt during sex is unfortunately much more difficult if not you are not using a sex toy.

To make a girl squirt during real vaginal sex, it will require your man having the perfect penis size and shape to really hit that G-Spot.

If he is lucky enough to meet the physical requirements involved, he can then simultaneously rub your clitoris with his fingers to get the double stimulation required to squirt.

Alternatively, you can rub your clit yourself while he is penetrating you for similar results.

Suffice to say, any real "sex" to get a woman squirt is even rarer in and of itself.

If you guys really want to squirt during sex, the best way is to incorporate a G-spot vibrator along with clitoral play.

This would not be vaginal sex but rather oral sex with vibrator penetration.

But as a couple, having that experience that eventually leads to squirting is invaluable.

If you really want to squirt as a couple, then that is the route to go with!

Although squirting naturally with a partner is possible, the best way to ensure squirting is with the use of at least one sex toy!


Don't Hold Back Your Orgasm!

For first timers who have never squirted before, it is important to recognize that the leadup to a squirting orgasm feels a lot like having to pee.

And because of this, it is very common for them to hold back from squirting due to their natural inclination to "hold it in".

In fact, it is not totally uncommon for girls who have squirted before to react this way upon repeat attempts.

However, this is in fact the squirting orgasm that you are looking for, and so you must make sure not to hold back when you feel that sensation coming on.

If you are the partner who is trying to help her squirt, be sure to reassure them that this is what you want, both beforehand and even in the moments leading up to the orgasm.

Tell her how beautiful and sexy she is, and how you can't wait for her to squirt all over the place.

This will help put her in the right state of mind, so that she can release all of her inhibitions and achieve that amazing squirting orgasm!

Final Thoughts

Now that you and your partner know how you can achive the perfect orgasm, all you have to do is go out and achieve it!

Start with plenty of foreplay, focus on both your clitoris and your g-spot (ideally at the same time), and don't hold back your squirting orgasm if you do feel it coming on.

Just keep in mind that you may not achieve a squirting orgasm your first time trying.

But as long as you keep these tips in mind, you will eventually squirt with enough practice.

girl sitting over a gushing fountain that makes her look like she is squirting
With enough practice, you can eventually squirt as much as this! (Not really - but a girl can dream right?)

In fact, the first time you squirt, it may just be a little bit of liquid.

If that happens to you, then congratulations!

You have gotten over the proverbial hump, so to speak.

You should now be fully aware and confident that you can squirt.

And with more practice, you will not only find it easier to squirt, but you will likely also be able to release more liquid during your orgasm too!

I remember the very first time I squirted with my (now) husband and it was such an amazing experience, and only cemented my love of squirting forever.

So good luck ladies! And good luck to the men who want to make women squirt as well! Don't give up and the art of squirting will be yours for sure!